As the holiday season fades and the new year begins, many of us start to think about New Year’s resolutions. It’s a tradition that comes with promise, a chance for a fresh start, and the hope of self-improvement. However, I’ve come to realize that most resolutions are somewhat ridiculous. Why? Because many people set unreasonable goals or aim for things that are completely out of character for them, leading to abandoned resolutions.

Every January, gyms see a surge in membership and health food stores stock up on meal prep containers all because of the people vow to get fit and healthy. Yet, come February, those same people can’t remember when they last hit the gym and half the meal prep lids are missing. The bottom line is that setting unrealistic expectations can set us up for failure. It’s almost as if people are trying to mold themselves into a version of someone they think they should be, rather than embracing who they are.

So what’s the best practice for making New Year’s resolutions? Instead of declaring lofty, uncharacteristic resolutions, consider focusing on a single change that, while not necessarily easy, is realistic and meaningful. Choose something that requires time and effort, allowing room for growth and development along the way.

This year, my resolution is to stay more organized and donate anything I no longer use or need. While the act of going through my belongings and choosing what to donate won’t take all year, it will still require a significant amount of time. Especially given that I have a house to maintain, kids to care for, and a husband who sometimes feels like a walking tornado, leaving little projects and piles scattered around our space. (love you babe)

By focusing on one resolution, I can dedicate the time necessary to make a meaningful change. It’s about embracing the process rather than rushing to check the box.

As we embrace the New Year, it’s essential to approach resolutions with a sense of realism rather than unrealistic pressure. Instead of attempting to morph into someone we’re not, let’s commit to focusing on one significant change that will take time and effort to achieve. By doing so, we can genuinely improve our lives and cultivate habits that stick.

So, this year, as I undertake my goal of getting organized, I hope to find fulfillment in the process—one donation bag at a time. With each step forward, I’m not just decluttering my home, but also enriching my life. Here’s to meaningful resolutions that lead to real change!

What’s your new years resolution going to be this year? Let me know in the comments below!

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