There comes a time in every mother’s life when she opens a closet, drawer, or entire room, and thinks, “How did we end up with this much stuff?” Spoiler alert: it didn’t happen overnight. It was a slow, sneaky build-up of free T-shirts, kid party favors, mismatched socks, and that one box labeled “random cords” that’s moved with you three times and still hasn’t been opened.
If this sounds like your home, what you’re about to learn is going to change all of that.
Welcome to the 30-Day Decluttering Challenge—aka the “Oh Wow, I Forgot I Owned That” journey (with FREE downloadable chart.)
Why Minimalism?
I used to think minimalism meant stark white walls, one sad succulent, and a single chair in the middle of the room. But that’s not the vibe we’re going for here. I’m talking about intentional living. Creating space in your home and mind by letting go of things that don’t serve you, spark joy, or at the very least don’t earn their shelf space.
As a mom of three in a small town where Target runs aren’t just errands but emotional (and sometimes traumatic) events, I get how easy it is to accumulate stuff. Toys multiply. Mail stacks up. Clothes you swore you’d fit into again start judging you silently from the back of the closet.
But minimalism—real, sustainable minimalism—is about keeping what matters and releasing the rest.
The 30-Day Decluttering Challenge
The beauty of this challenge is that it starts small and builds momentum. You’re not expected to gut your garage on Day 1 (unless you’re into that kind of chaos). Here’s the breakdown:
Day 1:
Let go of 1 item
Day 2:
Let go of 2 items
Each day you let go of the number of items that corresponds with what day you’re on.
For example, on day 30 let go of 30 items.
By the end, you’ll have decluttered a total of
465 things!
That’s 465 items you no longer have to clean around, store, or trip over at midnight.
And yes, those toddler socks without a match? They count.
P.S. – Download this printable checklist to make this challenge even easier and for some added accountability!
Realistic Tips to Survive The Challenge
Here’s what’s worked for me—and what I tell anyone who is also living in the glorious chaos of parenthood, pets, and far too many projects:
Start Where the Stakes Are Low
Bathroom drawers. Junk baskets. That one kitchen cabinet with 47 plastic lids and only two containers. Start there. Trust me, you’ll feel accomplished fast.
Give Every Family Member a Role
Even your toddler can help. Have them pick three toys they never play with to give to “other kids who need them.” My 6-year-old felt like a hero. My 7-year-old negotiated like an attorney with their career on the line. Either way, stuff left the house with little to no tears.
Set a Donation Box by the Door
Having a visible spot for donations makes it easier to part with things in the moment. Didn’t wear that top today even though you picked it up and thought about it? Into the box it goes.
When the box gets full, simply pop it into your car and donate it at the charity of your choosing. By doing this you’ll prevent the box from becoming the new clutter spot.
Sentimental Items? Save for Last
Do not—I repeat—DO NOT start with your kids’ baby clothes or your wedding memorabilia. You’ll end up on the floor clutching a stained onesie while sobbing into a pile of hospital bracelets. (Been there, done that.)
What Happens After Day 30?
Here’s the truth: Minimalism isn’t a destination—it’s a mindset shift. Once you go through this challenge, something magical happens. You start thinking differently about what you bring into your home. You pause before buying more. You start noticing how much lighter your space (and your mind) feels without the constant visual noise.
You might even fall a little in love with the clarity.
You’ll walk into Target and think, “Do I really need another candle that is more a conversation piece than room freshener?” (Okay, maybe one more.)
This challenge isn’t about becoming a minimalist monk living with nothing but a backpack and a cracking bar of soap. It’s about reclaiming your space, your time, and your peace of mind. It’s about opening your front door and feeling a sense of calm—not chaos.
So if you’re ready to kick clutter to the curb, I invite you to start this 30-day journey with me. You might be surprised how letting go of physical stuff can help you hold onto what really matters.
Because even if all you declutter this week is the empty gum wrappers and old receipts in your purse,
I’m proud of you.
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